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I’m feeling on a different level at the moment and I’d like to share what I’m thinking with the very few people that click on my boring posts.
It just occurred to me that we seek our happiness in other people’s sadness. I don’t know if I’m stupid because I hadn’t realised that before or I’m really smart for realising it at this age.
You get that kind of people that ask you “how are you?” “I’m good, feeling very happy.” Then you get a reply like “ahh” and then that feeling of disapproval. The kind of person that thinks he knows everything, been through everything, that he knows what’s best for you. You know when he says “I’m very happy for you….that he’s saying that with ‘half a mouth’. You can see it on his face. That he’s suffering terribly because you’re doing ok. Because you have the courage to say: “yes, I’m happy”. But only that you say that. You can see it on your face.
And that face annoys the person so much……He’s the kind of person that would tell you that “love lasts 3 years, that the ending of Love Story kinda sucked, that Tristan and Isolde didn’t have just a perfect relationship, that Romeo and Julie was just ok. This kind of people are really good when you get in trouble. He’s the kind that will tell you:”You’re not ok??? It’s going to be just fine”.
That’s when he activates. His senses come to extreme sensitivity when he hears you’re not okay. He’s the kind that gets upset because you’re happy.
So I smile, make bad jokes, laugh as much as possible,live each moment to the highest intensity. I like to laugh and live.
Yours, A M Maxim
When she tells you she doesn’t like your grumpy face when you wake up in the morning…..or that she’s sick of you…..
Start begging and go on all fours asking for mercy. Tell her you can’t live without her…..All this nonsense that you’d do. DON’T. You can’t stop a woman from leaving. You can only make her not want to.
When she tells you she wants to leave your pathetic being ask her the following: “Are you sure?” If she replies with “yes” say “Ok, bye” and move on with your life….Ask her if she needs any help, with moving her stuff out of your apartment, of course….
If you can’t live without her, if the sun rises and sets above her, if you can’t perceive a world without her, if your weather forecast depends on her smile then your only chance is this. If you want the slightest chance of reconciliation at some point in life then do this. By trying to lick her high heels you’re only going to prolong this unnecessary pain….and she will see this….she will realise your slavery and will crush you. Believe me, it’s her instinct to do so.
If you manage to change her mind through humiliation then I assure you she’ll want to leave again , and soon. Why? Because you just showed her that you’re something she wipes the floor with.
Just by saying “Ok, bye” you made her think. Hold on, I said I was leaving him and he said ok? UH-OH. Her pride will work for you and against her.
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Yours, A M Maxim.
Is it her fault you let your past haunts you?
Mistrust is like a preventive slap. Every promise is a hazard. We don’t enter a relationship like the villains in movies. We don’t go on a first date with a diabolical plan to win her trust. After we got it, we don’t use a silver knife to cut her soul in little pieces. No one can promise a future that will change us…..
Women are disposed to believe stories. She’s kissed many frogs, you might turn out to be a prince.
We, men, suffer from retrospective paranoia. If someone just cheated on him, all women are undiscovered whores, temporarily.
If his ex was “spendy” then you better not bring your £800 Chanel bag on the first date. If his ex gained a bit of weight, you better expect him to look if you’ve finished your meal, even if you ordered salad.
He’s so scared of the last relationship he isn’t even enjoying himself around you. He’s analysing you, comparing everything you do with his last consort. God forbid if you share one or two traits.
If you ask me, we’re not paranoid. We’ve been there, done that. We know these womanly circumventions very well.
So I have to ask, why would you want to start over again with someone who lives in the past, someone who brings all the negativity with him? Why would you want someone who projects everything that happens in the past on present’s board? That’s a relationship without………………………without a future.
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Yours, A M MAXIM
There are people that can drown from a glass of water and there are people who can swim from France to England.
There are people that don’t see the door open and people that dig their way to freedom from the prison of memories. Most of the times a relationship doesn’t happen because of others.
Being afraid of making the same mistakes we don’t do anything. And that’s how you end up regretting a relationship you never had, a love that you aborted, a blossoming soul and you can’t stop thinking whether it would be same or better if you were next to him/her.
You could have been next to her.
You could have illuminated her face and her nights.
The better she is in her new relationship the more you regret she didn’t live it with you.
……but dreams change their address when you wait too long before visiting them.
That’s how we end up regretting tomorrow.
Future is past in reverse.
Yours, A M Maxim
Because men are like advertisements: the description has nothing to do with the product.
After all, actions are what we expect from one another, it’s a lot easier to say than to do.
Big words often hide sensitive souls, which hide like children in mummy’s shoes.
You can’t walk in words. You can’t try to convince with promises. What’s fair, there are men that work 2 jobs and think that’s enough. They work for the happiness of the couple but leave it halved…..
It may be unfair that some of these people wake up alone. On the other hand how many people sleep together in the same bed, ALONE? Maybe it is unfair. But we need something sweet at the end of the meal, even though that doesn’t kill your hunger.
It’s hard to balance, it’s hard not to succeed. You don’t have to. Men like in movies only exist in movies.
Negative characters exist in everyone’s subconsciousness.
I’m extremely skeptical when someone compliments me, especially when it’s usually followed by a request.
Women are very skeptical to promises, especially since they are followed by nothing.