I have so much respect for people that do amazing things, people that go out of their comfort zone, people that risk their life to entertain you for a minute. People who take pleasure in making you feel amazing. As I said in one of my older posts: There are people who drawn from a glass of water and people that can swim from England to France.
People that dedicate their life to a certain passion. People who give away family to pursue what they love. It fascinates me that some people turn out to be such amazing husband/wife material and some people turn out to be a lone wolfs. People that wonder the world seeing things most of us will never get to. Why? Because people have choices. You make your own life, not one is going to make it the way you want. There’s so many places to go, so many things to see, so many situations I crave to be in, so many experiences I want to go through, so many people I want to meet, so many things I want to learn, the hard way.
It’s mind-blowing how some people have certain principles. Although I hate biology and chemistry, I love what the human mind can do. The places it can take you, surrounded by the 4 walls of your room. Just close your eyes and dream. People that have that ability, I envy you, so much.
I was in college the other day and I had this conversation with this guy, I asked him if he drinks alcohol. He calmly said: “I don’t drink”. I looked at him bewildered, my ignorance not realising the diversity in people. I aggressively asked him if he had ever tried it…….He looked in my eyes and smiled, saying: “I don’t drink”. He had that look on his face, like he didn’t understand my stupefaction. That’s human nature….
Sure, you have people that stab you in the back for a greater salary, and you have people that think they stole your girlfriend. Of course he doesn’t realise that if you allowed him to steal her, she stopped being yours before he even got there or should I say in there. 🙂
You also have people that annoy me until my blood starts to boil. They’re still people, they’re still fascinating, just not to me. People that have a hard time comprehending logical reasoning. Because everything in this world happens at the wish of a supernatural god that punishes you when you sin. SUCH LAUGH.
I find astonishing this rule people created. I was on my way to college the other day, I took my packet of cigarettes out, realising I had like 18 left I fainted a smile. 20 seconds later, someone walks up to me and asks me:”Do you have a spare cigarette?”. Mind-blowing. Not “I’ve seen you take your cigarettes out, can I please have one?”. No, of course not. You can’t put someone you don’t know in an awkward situation. You have to ask if they have a spare one, although you’ve seen their packet. There are certain rules that we follow, without even realising it.
It mesmerises me to learn about people, to see what makes them tick, what makes them do things, what makes them blindly follow religion, what makes them be so passionate about science, what makes people make the choices they make. I want to know their stories. I want to……KNOW.
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You have to ask yourselves what you want. An affair or a relationship although relationships today are pretty much affairs.
Send him naked pictures. End of story, he’s yours, for one, two, maybe even three nights of pleasure. Then he leaves. WHY? Because that’s all you had to offer. Pleasure. I’m sorry to burst your bubble but that doesn’t make all men “THE SAME”. You’ll be treated like what you seem to be. That could be a princess, a lady or a slut.
You’re right when you think “looks” matter. They do. It all starts from how you look, unfortunately that’s the way it is. All people are judgmental, whether they admit it or not it’s a different story. For me at least, if you don’t look like you’ve had 10 rounds with Mike Tyson, you’re fine, within reason, of course. Being pretty is not going to cut it. Not for a MAN. Sure, you can be staggering. But that beauty will pass, what are you going to do when you’re 40 and he leaves you for a “hot” 20 year old? I’ll tell you what. You’re going to say: “ALL MEN ARE THE SAME”. HAH.
Men are not complicated. You should be able to diagnose in a couple of hours. Believe me on this, however confident he is, if he doesn’t falter around you, he’s not interested. You should be able to tell whether he is having a good time or not. How? Well, he smiles like a moron for starters.
A woman that smells good is a magnificent woman. I can’t even describe how big of an impact this can have. Eye contact. This is very important. Look into his eyes, this will improve the atmosphere and give him a sense of security,
When a woman teases, it shows two things: 1. She’s comfortable around you. 2. She’s intelligent. This is my personal opinion, if she can tease you, she’s intelligent.
Sense of humour. Hah. Well, this is slightly more complicated than it looks. We’re all different people and We react differently to different things. I like to categorize sense of humour in three categories. Aggressive (Me), passive and English. HAHAHA. You need to be compatible when it comes to humour, again, personal opinion.
CHEMISTRY. No, not GCSE or A Level Chemistry. The chemistry between the two of you. I can’t explain this. I don’t know how, you have to feel it. I’ll give you an example though. In my previous relationship I would pick up the phone and within 5 seconds I’d receive a text, from her. How would I know? I FELT.
Yours, A M Maxim.